Some people are experts in finding fault in others, totally ignoring their own shortcomings. This has cost them a lot of good relationships; as such they often complain that it is hard to find a good man or woman not knowing that they are the problem themselves. So before you start looking for that perfect man or woman, examine yourself; are you perfect? Of course NOT! because no human being is perfect.We all have our shortcomings. If you continue to look for fault you may end up been lonely and frustrated.
How do you overcome this negative attitude:
- Look for the good in everyone you meet especially in any relationship, everyone is inbuilt with some good qualities no matter how insignificant it seems. Focus on their good points and try to overlook their weak points.
- Gently and kindly point out point out the negative trait in the character of others with the intention to correct them and not to humiliate them.
- Be patient! Give enough time for the other person to correction and change when necessary. Patience is an essential ingredient in any relationship.
- Remember, for you to have the best, you must be the best! Therefore examine yourself, take the necessary steps to get rid of your own bad attitudes.
(Can you see the problem here? How are the builders going to get out?! haha)