Are You A Fault Finder?

Some people are experts in finding fault in others, totally ignoring their own shortcomings. This has cost them a lot of good relationships; as such they often complain that it is hard to find a good man or woman not knowing that they are the problem themselves. So before you start looking for that perfect man or woman, examine yourself; are you perfect? Of course NOT! because no human being is perfect.We all have our shortcomings. If you continue to look for fault you may end up been lonely and frustrated.

How do you overcome this negative attitude:

1. Look for the good in everyone you meet especially in any relationship, everyone is inbuilt with some good qualities no matter how insignificant it seems. Focus on their good points and try to overlook their weak points.
2. Gently and kindly point out point out the negative trait in the character of others with the intention to correct them and not to humiliate them.
3. Be patient! Give enough time for the other person to correction and change when necessary. Patience is an essential ingredient in any relationship.
4. Remember, for you to have the best, you must be the best! Therefore examine yourself, take the necessary steps to get rid of your own bad attitudes.

(Can you see the problem here? How are the builders going to get out?! haha)

Hardest Things to Say

I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. They are the things you get ashamed of because words diminish them, words shrink things that seemed timeless when they were in your head. But you cant diminish your heart, your heart decides who it likes and who it doesn’t. You can’t tell your heart what to do, but it does it on its own when you least expect it, or even when you don’t want it to and I never thought in a million years that I would find someone so amazing and completely perfect! Someone that would make me happier than I ever dreamed; someone that would give me a whole new reason to breathe. So each time I miss you, a star falls down from the sky. So if you look up and find it dark, it is all your fault. You made me miss you too much! ♥